Category: emotional intelligence

• March 17, 2024

  Empathy is killing me. I wish I was a narcissist.

  There is one pup that met with an accident and lost its hind legs’ mobility. It’s sitting alone and crying most of the day, whereas the other pups are goofing around. I feel so sad witnessing the situation of the disabled pup. I’m unable to accept the fact that it is helpless. I tried reaching…
• February 21, 2024

  Letting go of someone is less painful

  I always tell myself, ‘Don’t hurt yourself, make yourself happy and proud.’ But I get attached to people, and then life becomes difficult. This time, I had to act like nothing could bother me and let go of a person. This was the same person who was kind to me when the whole world was…
• January 2, 2024

  Narcissist utilized the opportunity to seek revenge on me

  Today, the narcissist seized the opportunity to defame me, spreading hatred. An event is being held soon in the name of our late relative. I didn’t know that everyone was asked to contribute some amount to reduce the financial burden. The enablers informed the narcissist about it. Instead of passing the information to me, the…
• January 1, 2024

  Blessings from 2023! 💓 #gratitudejar
• November 28, 2023

  My Traumatized Dating Journey

  I am feeling better and anxious in equal parts. Let me tell you something here. So, I went on a couple of dates. Unfortunately, nothing worked out as usual. None of the guys want to pursue me, and it’s alright. But the problem is they have started emotional abuse; ignoring me on purpose and breadcrumbing.…
• November 24, 2023

  Inside the Mind of an Abuser

  Abusive individuals will act as victims when called out. They perceive it as cruel on the part of the survivors to tell the world what they did and said because in their world, they are masters, and the rest of the human species is filled with slaves. They get hurt when exposed in the way…
• November 18, 2023

  My main reason to not believe in the presence of gentlemen

  Every time I start believing in the existence of good men because of a male friend or relative, they do the exact same things which my abusive father did: make fun of my feelings and gaslight me. The sad part of that is I don’t accept that they are bad; instead, I rethink my choices…
• November 9, 2023

  Request to the government for conducting mandatory counseling for potential parents

  It’s hard to believe that some parents trigger their children to commit suicide by acting a certain way or using negative words. They watch the young ones attempt to die and repeat the same toxic behaviour in future because of their inability to change for a better tommorrow. The manipulation, gaslighting, and abuse of kids…
• October 23, 2023

  Life of housewives in general

  Some of us opine that homemakers are individuals with free time and peace. It can be true if their husbands are open-minded and do not withhold access to the finances and do not implement any restrictions on their freedom. The majority of husbands view their life partners as slaves and feel entitled to every service.…
• October 4, 2023

  My body is my property

  The title may sound wrong but the intentions are different. I have a rare medical condition and I do not look like most healthy humans. Though I know my body is not my personality, whenever someone passes a comment on my body, I mentally collapse. I mean certain aspects of my body are not under…